Four Agreements Gossip

One drawback of the book is that some of the chords are too extreme, and if you take them literally, they can cause additional problems in your life if taken without a proverbial grain of salt. However, with a little balance and a sense of openness, these chords can change and alleviate stress. Here is an explanation of the four agreements. Sometimes you give information to your friends because you trust them and you think they are loyal to you. Maybe she`s your best friend, and you`ll like it on yourself, and you`ll tell her how you feel about yourself, about others, and you tell yourself that she won`t share it with anyone. And maybe that`s true until she`s no longer your girlfriend. If something happens and she is hurt or angry and the friendship with you breaks, it is a way for her to come with you, to applaud all the information you have given her. One thing you need to learn about gossip is that it starts with yourself. Don`t clap your self. The way we make assumptions is because we believe we know what others think and feel. We think we know their point of view, their dream. We forget that our convictions are only our point of view, based on our belief system and personal experience, which have nothing to do with what others think and feel. We assume that everyone judges us, abuses us, harasses us and blames us for the way we do it ourselves.

That is why we oppose us before others have the opportunity to refuse us. If we think that way, it will be difficult to be in the world. Take action and be aware of what you want or don`t want; Applause and make assumptions about things that others tell you. Respect other points of view and avoid just to be right. Respect yourself and be honest with yourself. Stop waiting for people around you what`s in your head. Using the four chords to master your life`s dreams is a magical journey. These are simple, but powerful. What Don Miguel Ruiz calls your authentic self to find wisdom is well-being and mastery. Love your presentation of this. What this means is that this agreement is intended to avoid gossip, lies, empty promises and other ways to create problems with our words.

Just say what you mean, and realize that you can cause damage if you are not careful with what you say. “Nothing that others do is because of you. It`s up to himself. All men live in their own dreams, in their own minds; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. If we take something personal, we assume that they know what is in our world and we try to impose our world on their world. Even if a situation seems so personal, even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you. What they say, what they do, and the opinions they express correspond to the agreements they have in their own minds. “Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements Question: When I talk to a friend of mine about another person we both know, does that mean I applaud, even if I say nothing wrong about that person? Ruiz`s principles are rooted in Toltec`s traditional wisdom and, in their simplicity, these powerful arrangements are difficult and revolve around the idea that the way we think and act is based on agreements we make with ourselves.